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The Secret to Slowing Down your Busy Life

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When you look back on the past year, do you wonder where did the time go? Do you feel like you are so busy during the day that at the end of the day you think to yourself, ‘what did I even get done today?’  We blink and another month or year of “getting through the day” has gone by.  I am going to share with you the secret to slowing down your busy life.

There are so many problems with going through life like a zombie.  We can easily give our life more purpose by knowing what we want out of it, but that is for another day. Today I want to tell you about the in-between moments and how to slow down your busy life when you feel like you are standing in the middle of the highway with everything in life flying by and you are just running trying to keep up with the cars.

My Perfect Sunday

I am in public accounting, which for those of you that don’t know, means that from January through mid-March, I work mandatory 55 hours. This generally includes working on Saturdays. I share more about these struggles as a working (outside-the-home) Mom in my about me page. This means that Sundays are very precious to me this time of year.  My life is very chaotic most days. I have a lot of big goals and dreams that I am chasing when I am not chasing my toddler.

This Sunday, in particular, was not necessarily a productive Sunday, but a perfect one nonetheless. It was not a special day, a birthday nor a holiday.  Today was not a day that will be remembered by anyone else, but I was reminded of a valuable life lesson today. Our lives are made up of the in-between moments and they are just as important to our lives. Life is not just about surviving every day between the holidays and life events, it’s about recognizing the small moments to be grateful for and trying to improve ourselves daily.

Sunday Morning

Fortunately, this Sunday was beautiful! We were able to go to the park as a family and just enjoy the beautiful weather.  It is so much fun watching our little boy grow so much! He is all over the park with a mind of his own. He climbs the stairs and goes down the slides all by himself!  One of the benefits of living in central Texas is the amazing weather. Right now in February, it is 75 degrees outside. You would not think it was winter.

It is the perfect distance for us to get a little exercise to walk there and chase him around the place. Then we walked back just in time for nap-time! It worked out perfectly. In the picture below, you can see that he started to get a little sleepy at the park. It only lasted a minute and he was back running around.  He is so adventurous.

Saturday Afternoon

I am trying to work on my tan early in the year. With our second child due at the end of May, I am not sure how much time I will have to devote to tanning.  When Brayden was born, I was pretty much locked in the house all summer with an infant. Starting as early as May in central Texas, the temperature can reach up to 90+ degrees, which is excessively hot for both mom and newborn baby.  When it is that hot, our greatest concern is dehydration. When your baby is so young and drinks so little, giving him water can fill up his little belly with water and the not nutritious milk he needs. It is recommended that you don’t give babies water until 6 months old.

My plan to keep this free tan is to tan earlier in the year like on beautiful days in February and to take advantage of naptime. Being a first-time mom with Brayden, I was always nervous to leave him inside napping for very long, even with our baby monitor. Needless to say, I was very pale that year.

After we put Brayden down for his afternoon nap, my in-laws came over and we enjoyed the sunshine outside for probably about an hour.  It was great and so relaxing.

(In this picture, it is hard to believe I am 5 months pregnant!)

Sunday Evening

In case you didn’t know, it was also Superbowl Sunday – and it was a great Superbowl! The game was exciting, the commercials were great and the halftime show was amazing! My husband and I got a babysitter for the game, as you can see below.

We don’t usually let our son use the iPad mini, except to maybe watch movies on long drives. Here is the case we use, and it works great!  We just let him watch Kids YouTube and he did not turn away from it. Some of the videos are a little weird, but a lot of the ones he was watching were surprisingly educational. We let him use it for about an hour and we finally wrestled it away from him.  He was not happy about that, but it was getting a little crazy.

My Secret

This Sunday might seem pretty boring or even relaxing with no chaos to you.  It still had the laundry, the struggles of feeding a picky toddler, getting everything ready for the week. And if you are like me, this type of day can stress you out because there are so many things I could’ve, should’ve, would’ve done to be productive. What I realized though, is that sometimes life is not just about chasing your goals and your toddler. If you are constantly chasing one thing after another, you look up and life has passed you by.

My secret to solving this problem might seem counterintuitive, but I promise it works! The secret is to stop chasing the cars! Take a few minutes and just stop.

You don’t have to be busy or productive all the time to have a purpose. Somedays you need some R&R and to just be present. The secret to successfully pausing your life is recognizing this moment in time as special and peaceful and as a memory.  Take a few minutes to just reflect on your day. Remember something funny or surprising that happened.

How to do it?

The one thing that helps me pause and slow life down is keeping a gratitude journal. This can really help you remember and appreciate these small things that make up our lives.  I don’t necessarily use a gratitude journal; I write it in my Day Designer Daily Planner that I love! (They are coming out with there 2018-2019 academic calendar ones soon!) It helps me plan each day and stay productive. It also has a perfect little spot for me to fill in what I am grateful for that day.  If you go to the link here you can see pictures of what the gratitude section looks like. This little habit only requires 30 seconds of reflection and really helps me appreciate these moments.

Whatever works best for you an app, a journal, or like me your planner, I really encourage you to try this habit for a few weeks and see if it helps you press pause on your life. I think you will find you that life is not flying by, but that you are living a full life of tons of small special moments!

(Look at these handsome boys!)

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  1. Donna Parsons
    Donna says

    March 11, 2018 at 3:54 am

    My 7 yr old granddaughter watches Papa Jakes box fort building then builds her own and art, drawing lessons

    Reply
    • letsdolattes – Austin, Tx
      Allie says

      March 11, 2018 at 10:47 pm

      Thank you for the comment! That sounds like fun! She must be very creative ?

      Reply
  2. Angela says

    April 13, 2018 at 11:12 am

    Slowing down is so important and I’m learning that I’m don’t have to be productive every second of the day. Great article!

    Reply
  3. livebreathless
    Jessica says

    April 13, 2018 at 11:30 am

    Trying to make room for family, is key. One day my husband and I ate lunch at a park with our 5 month old during the week. During the week the park doesn’t charge ??? and this park has a puppy park that we can en oy too ?

    Reply
  4. Jerri says

    April 13, 2018 at 11:48 am

    You are so right about slowing down. Love this post.

    Reply
  5. dashlifestyles
    Ashley says

    April 13, 2018 at 12:14 pm

    It’s so important to slow down!! I just had a son and the first year flew by!! Life is going by way to fast!

    Reply
  6. Jet says

    April 13, 2018 at 12:24 pm

    I can so relate to this! My son and I have a little bedtime ritual called “good things” the last thing we (I) do as he is drifting off to sleep is list all the good things, they range from trips to the zoo and going hiking to small things like reading a new bedtime story or watching one of his favorite shows together. I keep listing them until he is sleeping soundly and it helps both of us focus on the little everyday things that can actually be pretty special 🙂 great post!

    Reply
  7. thebabyspotca
    Grace says

    April 13, 2018 at 12:32 pm

    Slowing down is such a great reminder! Thanks for the inspiration! Really enjoyed this post!

    Reply
  8. sherilex
    Sheri-Ann says

    April 13, 2018 at 12:49 pm

    As Moms life can get so busy. One activity ties into another. Knowing when to stop or slow down is very important.

    Reply
  9. Ashley Roberts says

    April 13, 2018 at 1:03 pm

    I love the idea of a gratitude journal… That’s so neat and something I’m gonna look into!

    Reply
  10. Julie says

    April 13, 2018 at 2:39 pm

    Although I don’t have kids I still have to remind myself to slow down and take time for my dog, cat and myself. It does get overwhelming. You have a beautiful family and no, you do not look five months pregnant.

    Reply
  11. Kristy Wyatt – Blue Springs, MO
    Kristy Wyatt says

    April 13, 2018 at 4:18 pm

    Aw! I love this! And your little man is precious! I am going to get a gratitude journal! That’s a great idea!

    Reply
  12. Natalie @FullGreenLife says

    April 13, 2018 at 4:24 pm

    I like the idea of a gratitude journal in order to intentionally consider all the good. Also, the idea of pausing the craziness every once in a while resonates with me. Thanks for this honest post!

    Reply
  13. Alecia Horner
    Alecia says

    April 13, 2018 at 5:16 pm

    We love going outside as a family. I almost always have 100 projects going at once and burn out is always looming. Sometimes we just have to stop and do nothing. Our latest hobby is flying kites in the orchard, finally a good reason for the wind!

    Reply
  14. sbsams17
    Sarah says

    April 13, 2018 at 6:24 pm

    This is such a good read! I really love the idea of a gratitude journal. I may start doing that. And my Saturdays are like you’re Sundays; they’re my best days to do things for myself. But WHOA! 55 hours a week? I thought I was busy with my 40 lol.

    Reply
  15. Bianca says

    April 13, 2018 at 6:29 pm

    Great message there, thanks for the tips.

    Reply
  16. klyeager
    Kelsey says

    April 13, 2018 at 6:55 pm

    I’ve been keeping a gratitude journal for a while now- and it totally helps!! I agree 100%!

    Reply
  17. tredding7
    Tawnya says

    April 13, 2018 at 7:11 pm

    Thank you for sharing. Our world is so fast-moving that we all forget to stop and enjoy it once in awhile. I also like how you take what you term a “boring” day and make it special by enjoying it. I think we all need to remember to stop more often.

    Reply
  18. Maia BG
    Maia says

    April 13, 2018 at 7:26 pm

    It’s so hard sometimes to just take a minute and enjoy life in the moment. Yet it is so very important!

    Reply
  19. Shelley Langelaar
    Shelley says

    April 13, 2018 at 7:53 pm

    I am working on living a simpler life and part of that is slowing down.

    Reply
  20. Paula says

    April 13, 2018 at 9:43 pm

    Our power went out tonight for a couple hours. Amazing how it helped slow down this family! Thanks for the excellent tipcs.

    Reply
  21. skaitribe – Girlboss helping other girlbosses to thrive and find inner peace
    Skaiste says

    April 14, 2018 at 5:20 am

    Slowing down became so difficult. On daily basis I catch myself avoiding to time for myself and feeling selfish when I do that, so this is definitely something to look into.

    Reply
  22. Escape Writers
    EscapeWriters says

    April 14, 2018 at 9:30 am

    We are spending sunday as a super busy day, but you are sometime we have to halt and relax with a single holiday we get over a week. Your slowing down image is just wonderful!!!

    Reply
  23. thiswaymommy
    Sam says

    April 14, 2018 at 9:46 am

    Sam – Thiswaymommy.com
    You are so right about learning to slow down. I am so guilty of always having to find something to do. There truly are times when we have to learn to just slow down the pace. Your 5 month bump is too cute!

    Reply
  24. Jessica F.
    Jessica says

    April 14, 2018 at 1:22 pm

    You are so right, this world is just go, go go all the time…stop, relax and smell the roses once in awhile. You deserve it!

    Reply
  25. Dolphine – My love for pastries is impeccable,I will be sharing with you recipes and various baking tips here as well as restaurant reviews
    Dolphine Oyengo says

    April 15, 2018 at 11:05 am

    Slowing down is very important, as a busy mum, I needed this.Thanks!

    Reply
  26. Ingrid Rizzolo – I am a believer in the sovereignty of God. He is offering to be our partner on the long and winding journey of life
    Ingrid says

    April 15, 2018 at 1:59 pm

    Reading your description of how you spent your Sunday evening conveys to me a feeling of rest to me. You really just took the time to stop. From ti me to time we all need to time to stop from and rest. This post is instructive.

    Reply

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